Sunday, 4 May 2014

How difficult it can be


is there a better way to deal with difficult persons?
 
It's very strange how some people will use every opportunity to attack and demean others. Around such people, one is always on the lookout.
 
These people are always on the edge. In their own insecurities, they try to make others pay for what crimes they have not committed. There really is no way of getting used to living with such people.
Most of the time, you don't even have to be wrong. They always get issues even where there is none. With the least provocation, they descend on you. They make mountains out of ordinary molehills. The question is, aside acknowledging that they are right even when they are not just to accommodate them, is there a way that one can get used to them?
 
I know one has to avoid them whenever possible but what is the way out when this option is not an alternative?
 
We might always have the desire of taking a bow.
 
Contrary, we have to make room for such people. We have to be strong where they are weak. We need not concentrate on their shortfalls. There are so many people out there putting them down with their pointing fingers.
 
If we are only interested in telling the world what is wrong with such people, then what is the difference we want to see in these people?
Let us try harder with such people and be the change that we want to see in them.


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